I'm 20F and recently went on a date with this friend of mine (21M). I tentatively set up a second date with him, but blocked and deleted and ghosted for the following reasons. 1. He ghosted me first by unfollowing me on snap the day after the date and then refollowing. 2. He made alot of weird comm

I agree completely with the handbook that men should pay for dates, particularly at first. I would love to know everyone's thoughts on at what point women should start pitching in (if ever). I do feel that with the time, effort and cost of getting ready for a date, not to mention how little we have

I'm at a point in life where almost everyone in my social circles is female. All of my close friends are female and many don't even live in the same local area as me (so yes, even if I asked around for set ups, it's not like I know many people who can do that for me). My workplace is predominantly f

Is it just me or is it a sign of arrogance/disinterest if a scrote hasn't planned a date within 2 days after matching? All that was said was " let's meet somewhere next week". I feel like he probably has a roster and I lose interest if no set date/place/time is mentioned

I remember when I was on apps, that scrotes always pushed meeting ASAP. It gave me the feeling they were multidating (as in, a new woman every day, to stroke their ego) and just wanted quick sex. Because I sure as hell don't know if I want to spend time meeting a guy within one day. They'd only want

Is it just me or are these scrotes getting more audacity every day? Friend of mine was on a date yesterday. It was this app where you immediately plan a date and don't chat and honestly it's already a red flag because you can't vet. So she asks him, "how do you like the apps"? And the scrotes face l

Aside from the obvious ones, like anything porn-related or secret messaging apps like Telegram. Is Reddit an automatic red flag? How about Instagram and TikTok? They could be used innocently, but are often a vessel for porn or manosphere content. Conversely, are there any green flag apps that you a

• You're too old/the wall - he is worried about aging and wants a younger woman to be in denial with. Often, this scrote has no hair left but calls himself young at heart in his profile • You're too masculine - he feels inferior/dominated by your success or can't get you to do anything without for

I gave OLD another chances yesterday (I had used it before). Coffee Meets Bagel now requires you to link your account with your phone nunber. Where I live, you cannot get a phone card anonymously as you must link it to your real identity. When I had a look at the men on Coffee Meets Bagel, I can't h

I am openly childfree. I do not want kids because I value my calm, freedom, and independence. Having a child would mean I would be stuck with dealing with a man the moment he turns abusive, because the child deserves to be in contact. Pregnancy will also cause a cut in my income as I will have to wo

I'm at a point in life where almost everyone in my social circle (at least for people my age) is female. I know FDS does not encourage us to meet men but I think I need to take initiative in interacting with men. The chances of me coming across a HVM is pretty much zero if almost everyone in my soci

I need advice on how to handle this situation I made the mistake of dating someone from my work and the truth is that we broke up for various reasons 3 months ago and just at that time I went to work to another office in the UK while he stayed in the US and we haven't seen or spoken to each other.

Obviously you won't see him again,but is there a trick to force him to pay anyway? I feel my wasted time deserves to be compensated. Been reading Why Men Love Bitches and while the Dumb Fox is a good strategy, I want him to feel it in his wallet.

Why do all these scrotes have atraveling obsession? I work more than full-time and I go on a foreign holiday once a year. I hate flying and going through customs, and I love comfort and luxury. If I were to travel more, I'd not be able to dine out so often,to buy nice clothes, etc. Obviously I visit

So I used to date all wrong. Kiss men on the first date to " lock them down", then get hurt if they still wanted to see others. Now, I have decided I won't kiss until they commit to me and don't plan other dates. However, I still feel like I am not intetested in dating men who are in the process o

IMO if he values her, he’d still pay. My thinking is that, if a man were gentlemen, he’d pay regardless. My girl friends are saying that who ever initiated should pay, because it makes sense. Idk anymore, this has been on my mind the whole time. Update: now I’m like, why would she even initi

I want to make a difference in our society and I'm really not sure how to do it. What ways to you find are helpful in making change, specifically, for improving women's lives?

After gaining the new hosts on the pod, I initially knew I would be resistant to the change, as I loved our OG ladies and the content they produced. I wanted to give the new additions a chance to really settle into their roles before publishing any feedback on them, and I've come to the following li

When most men are asked why they want a girlfriend or wife, they give a laundry list of chores + sex + emotional labor, because they’re just looking for an appliance: “She’ll cook, clean, raise the kids, adore me, have sex with me, and soothe my troubled brow.” How would you answer: why do you wa

I have been reading the Gift of Fear and one story stands out to me. One of the women Gavin talks to says she'd never expect her husband to be violent... but then mentions his ex wife DIED to beatings by him. Like wtf,is she brain damaged? I had no idea my ex had had prior DV charges. I would have R

I just came across this tiktok on my FYP of this beautiful Woman in her 50s and almost 30k comments of people especially Men wanting her and simping over her. However of course There were some scrotes commenting how is she “how is she 51?” “She isn’t 51” and also the typical “expired”. They are obv

I’ve used Tinder back in 2018 then I stopped completely. I developed a terrible view from dating apps and everyone who was there for me was garbage. I never ever wanted to use it again. years later, this year, I was in a dinner with some single people and they were taking about dating apps. I proud

Is someone taking initiative with setting you up with a guy different from you asking others to set you up with men they know? Now that I think of it, I had found jobs via someone I know or a recruiter contacting me about a job opportunity and me taking initiative asking around for a job. For the o

Sorry for the spam. But just now I read that women there are forced to blind their windows. They are not allowed to speak in public. Not allowed midwives. WTF is nothing being done? Why are people only talking about Palestine but completely ignoring this? The West should never have left.

I think it's important to put men in situations where we see how they handle themselves and how they treat you instead of waiting for things or events to happen. Please share all of your experience where you saw how a man behaved in a certain situation that made you see his true colour. What situat

Was speaking to this guy 2 years ago never slept with him he moved away and we reconnected recently as he was coming back to our hometown. I’ve always fancied this guy he is my type to a T but I have only slept with 4 guys and never wanted to sleep with him easily. I had urges too (I’m young and I h

I saw this post on tumblr and wow she explained this perfectly! Had to share. Do Males have souls?

I have been seeing many scrotes claiming women lack it. It's wild to me as women often take on double the load (housework/career) while also continuing to look good. Meanwhile men come home and play games all day, not even showering. What do these incels mean anyway? That the wife gets the house to

I have a whole ass pick me mad at my ass for putting in my bio, “ Girl, nobody wants your man.” Now, I’m getting racist shade on Snapchat because I blocked her man and put that in my bio. My brain hurts. Are they truly that delusional in their life? Because I would’ve been happy as clam that nobod

Ok today morning I was scrolling thru the old FDS on reddit and was reading the post about no BS advice and it mentioned that to not do too much for your male friends. I had gone for a urban sketching session with my guy friend, altho we are good friends we have a complicated history as his friend i