I don't know if it's just my city, but it's very segregated ethnically and socioeconomically. It's very hard to get ahead and get connections unless you belong to a populous strata.

Was there a different kind of handbook or guideline that used to be in the FDS sidebar? There was a link to a post that was made years ago regarding red flags that had everyone connecting on a list of spot-on traits of LVM that almost seemed like it was dervived from a manipulation tactic ie: these LVM asking for anal or sex on the first date. It seems like a lot was lost on the original place.

@Astria When I click the second link the website opens up. It asks ‘are you male or female?’ When I click ‘female’, it redirects to a porn site!

Absolutely loved this podcast episode! 🩷

“Demand the universe and give nothing” Thank you so much for saying this out loud. I have been doing this and getting all sorts of shame from everyone, so I really needed to hear it. Obviously I don’t give absolutely nothing at all, but men still go out of their way to convince me I do.