Is there a link for the handbook? I've searched the website but can't seem to find it. I remember viewing it on Reddit back in the day. Thanks!

And this applies to women in a patriarchy, as well. Over the past two years, I've been giving people chances to not hurt me simply because I'm female. But there has not been a single person who has not leveraged patriarchy against me. With men, it's more obvious. Guys who called me bestie have t

First and foremost, I don't expect anyone else here to be vegan...that's not truly what this post is about. My question though is, if you WERE would you date a man that isn't? Or to go broader...what kind of major lifestyle differences do you accept if any?

So, I got married in my early twenties. I have two kids. I loved them, they had great early childhoods. I got a few marriage proposals from guys wanting kids and all I could do was try not to barf. I logically know I don't want more kids. ...and then I see videos of babies and start thinking

I created an extra Facebook account, and told her, then blocked. I wasn't mean. I said I'm sorry this is the way she has to find out. I told her every detail, and how I knew how he seems so sweet and charming, so when it happened to me, I almost didnt believe it, which he had banked on. Then he

How do you guys deal with this? I just passed my 6 month probation. My "senior" colleague (only by tenure at this workplace, not by age or experience) has started claiming credit for work assigned to both of us to share. Granted, I need him to point me in the right direction, but then I'll do 90% o

He may as well call us hysterical little manipulative attention seekers.

I really liked the podcast and the trio women. They all where such a vibe.

Q1-2025 is officially done, ladies. Hooray! We made it. 💜🎉 How are you traveling? I have made some good progress towards some of my goals. YAY! however, I am exhausted. Not yay. I need to prioritise better self care, and also more rest. And actual joy. And sunshine. I have also managed to con

I've noticed that when a woman is single and on the verge of becoming homeless, she sometimes resorts to sex work or is forced to marry. But when men are in the same financial distress, no one suggests that they start becoming male prostitutes or get married. Why is it always on the women to sex the

How do you all find and make friends who share your mentality especially with men and dating. Most women are pick mes obsessed with fairytales. How do you suss out if a woman is realistic and has high standards. Without being one of those crazy women who blindly follows sheraseven with no internal

For the new users who discovered FDS through the site, the original FDS reddit (now inactive), is a goldmine of good posts, comments, and insight. I personally love going back and reading the top posts and the discussion and comments on them. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/top/?t=all

There's been a new study RE: women giving up on marriage and it includes statistics on the combined household earning of a married couple (Obviously a higher number, it's two people) vs single person. No duh. I've been noticing men using "poverty" as a scare tactic on why women should reconsider th

The comments are actually disgusting. The fact that these men are blaming HER for HIM trying to murder HER is baffling. I’m genuinely shocked at how they claim to be so “logical” and “rational” when they’re clearly unhinged. They shouldn’t be allowed in any position of power. These men are sayin

Like, so I didn't date this guy. (A lot of people seem to think I've dated the dudes I'm complaining about, but sometimes I just had crushes). The EGOS on these men. They think they are God. They will have a following of people based on lies they tell and things theyre wrong about. Think, Zapp Bra

I see a lot of posts that go like this: Dear FDS, [Ten paragraphs of justification about how great a man is] There is just one problem [insert heinous, deal breaker issue]. What do I do? I have been guilty of this for many years myself. The way we tell our stories reflects our self worth and our

She made such an excellent point in the recent episode of the podcast where she notes the coverage of Selena Gomez relationship and commentary on their interview. Young women will be drawn to anything, (even an unattractive scote) just to think of themselves being treated right, whereas men are mo

So, my ex stepdad tried to fuck me about 7 years ago. Of course, I said no and told everybody, including his wife. The dude is a chronic Mamas boy who abuses his mom financially, and makes his new, obese wife watch his kid he had with a woman who cheated on him. And then insults her on his socia

Hello, I‘m currently in my first ever relationship at 28 (long distance). I was dating here and there and I have to say that I’m not the most experienced person and that I’m a late bloomer. He was clear with his intentions from the beginning, we text every day, we facetime, we‘ve went on our first

This is a LONG post but very much worth the read... I was recently diagnosed with dry eye disease (DED) at 39, which is very young (but more and more young people, even teens and 20s, are getting diagnosed with this due to our excessive use of screens). Something else peculiar is that it affects f

For context, I received a temporary contract for the same position as I currently have now for my exe’s alma mater! Lol that’s a HARD NO!I believe he still lives in the area. It’s been 5 years of us breaking up. He’s the first guy I ever fell in love with, so it was difficult for me to heal. I wou

I have the opportunity to work sporadically/seasonally with a physician. He seems harmless in person, and his practice has good online reviews. The work would be occasional, and he would not be my employer in the traditional sense. I would work as an independent contractor, and I would speak to him

I broke up with my ex on December of last year and I’m having a hard time getting over him even with all the crap he pull through, we work together so I think that is really related to the fact that I still see him every day. I’m working out a lot and going out with my friends but I still can’t get

I found this on the 4B subreddit. Glad young Women aren’t tolerating this BULL. So first they say Women are no longer desirable at 35, then 30, then 25, then 22. The age keeps getting lower and lower, they intentionally do this to Women. These nasty creeps really love lying to themselves. this CRE

Some tidy summaries of healthy, HV and unhealthy, LV relationship dynamics. https://www.joinonelove.org/signs-unhealthy-relationship/ P.S. feel free to check out my blog at femcurrent2.wordpress.com! It’s still in development and right now is just some of my previous forum posts

We were in undergrad together and she was my neighbor. When you think of the types of HVW you want in your life, it was absolutely her you are picturing. I remember she used to send guys out of her apartment (who thought they were about to get laid) if they couldn't present her with recent STD pap

Hi luxurylover and other mods, Please let me know or make a post saying if Ovarit users can come here. The site is closing there and the women are radical feminists who are opposed to men in women’s spaces. They would be a wonderful addition to the site here. A section for Ovarit users would be fan

https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/controversy-completely-baffled-geena-davis/ Good article and sadly true- as long as men (especially old, white men) control Hollywood, female-focused fiction simply won't get the attention men's stuff will. Also, I love that interviewer asking if the A League of Thei

credits: https://sonyathomaslcsw.com/relationship-green-flags/ P.S. I have also decided to start my own blog! It’s stil just in development and right now is just my previous forum posts, but if you’re interested feel free to check it out here: https://femcurrent2.wordpress.com