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I met a cute guy at the gym recently and he was my "gym crush". He was my type and I found him pretty darn cute. I finally was able to make small talk with him and he told me his first name. Me being Nancy Drew, I was able to take that information and find him on social media. I am proud of my detective work.
Anyway, it looks like he is too young for me. I'm 29 and I think he's like 21 or 22. I still have to do some research and of course I will ask him, but for now I think he is too young for me.
I thought your post would be a horror story where you find creepy information related to some guy you met on OLD. But yes, this is very important. Plenty of LVM are experts at lying. If employers will research job candidates before deciding on who to hire, then you should do the same.
This is why women are better than men 🤣 Any man would look at the age and go "wow, even better!" 😂😂😂
Here's a story that will hopefully give you a laugh....
About 2 years ago there was a guy at my gym who was one of the hottest guys I have ever seen. I noticed him checking me out at the gym multiple times which only made me more turned on. I used my online sleuthing skills and found his social media easily.
OMG. It was an absolutely shit show. His twitter was literally him talking about how hot he is. He would say things like "forever walking around looking better than everybody else" with a gym selfie of himself. He was also OBSESSED with some bodybuilder guy named Zyzz and would post about him every single day. It was clear he was trying to model his appearance after him. He also used bizarre slang that I guess was apart of the Zyzz bodybuilding community. Ugh, it was just so so bad. I was actually cracking up looking at it.
Funny enough, I switched gyms and actually ran into this guy a few weeks back at the new gym on the other side of town. First time seeing him in almost 2 full years. Haven't said anything to him and likely never will, but I look back and find the whole thing pretty amusing.
I agree. I definitely always do, and find interesting things, and like to google and also like to use judyrecords as a free resource.
Though I am surprised at the couple of times men themselves have admitted to me crimes they have on record that I could not find online. One time I dated a guy briefly who told me about how he was two years sober and had a couple dui charges. I could not find those dui charges online. And his name was not a common one either. Another hurdle, is if the guy has a common first and last name combination.
I wish it was easier to research for free, what kind of rap sheet a person has.
But if they have social media that helps to research them. Some of them don't and I actually would prefer someone without it or with one he hardly uses, since they often use it to look at naked women or to hit on women and keep in touch with exes. I don't have any social media myself and consider someone to be more aligned with my own values if they don't have it at all. But then if they don't have a presence it does make it more difficult to figure out their character.
I would love if anyone has resources or advice for other free ways to find info about someone online.