Is there a link for the handbook? I've searched the website but can't seem to find it. I remember viewing it on Reddit back in the day. Thanks!

When a couple is having an argument and the woman tries to walk away/ disengage, but the guy physically restrains her until they kiss and make up #HappilyEverAfter 🙄 Yeah that counts as putting your hands on a woman as far as I'm concerned and I'm sick of it being romanticized. All of this to

The husband was a dentist and the friend “June” was supposedly taking pictures without his consent. The husband said he wanted to divorce the wife later after everything they went through together and tbh I don’t think the husband got enough hate for that. I’m inclined to believe he had an affai

I occasionally see posts about users here using OLD. Why are so many of you using OLD? Don't know about you but for me, I swiped right for almost every guy I came across. Back when I played around with OLD, the men on OLD (regardless of which app I used) generally fall into these categories: • The

I know that sometimes we learn things later in life than others do but I'm not OK with this. I learned a little too late in life that this is the norm for people, to be dating others when they're dating you, until you as a couple are exclusive. I realize that I do not abide by this philosophy an

A friend I made over a year ago has just shown that she was a pickme all along. When we met, we were both single and she started talking about how men can’t be trusted, how she learnt about how bad men are from her own brother who is a typical LV guy and had lots of FDS talking points. I felt happy,

Do these guys assume they're being used for their money when a woman asks for a gift or something? I've encountered several men who are wiling to spend hundreds on dinner and other kinds of dates but hate the idea of buying a gift for a woman.

Most women are not sexually attracted to walking STD containers in the same way that most men are not vice versa. So if a guy really slept with that many women, he's either deliberately hidden/ downplayed his body count before sleeping with them (rape by deception), been sleeping with women who had

Just saw this one female streamer who was proudly showing off the ring her boyfriend gave her. They are together for more than a decade now. Both around 40. They live together. She was giggling and beaming being over the moon happy. The ring she got? Made out of some plastic trash remains he had for

Good afternoon ladies. I need advice about my current relationship. Last night I was watching Fatal Vows on Amazon prime with my partner. There was an episode where a man shot his wife 4 times for cheating on him. I made a joke telling my partner to not take any notes. I regret saying that and tend

Hi FDS! I think I may have picked another losers but as a fearful avoidant I need some insight from a third party. I’ve been seeing this guy about a month. He’s a hard worker and has paid for most dates except I paid for movie tickets once. We both deleted the apps and I thought things were going

All men are going to give you headaches; so, at least choose one who won't leave you broke and destitute! Worrying about being able to afford things is always so much harder than worrying about missing a date or two because your man works hard at a good job. And just a side note about those "ho

The stupidest thing a woman in a relationship can do is give her man reason to think she's more into him than he is into her- to the extent where she's willing to do things for him that don't apply vice versa or tolerate shit he himself never would from her for the sake of maintaining the relationsh

Charlie Kirk’s wife Erika Kirk have a speech at his funereal, and I didn’t want to watch her long ass speech but she apparently ended up making at about feminism and how women shouldn’t focus on careers blah blah, I asked ChatGPT to summaries some of her points: ““I am tremendously honored to be

Even if you're not a single mom, it's never a bad idea to ask a man how he feels about stepchildren. His answer will reveal quite a lot about who he is as a person. Because if he claims to want to be a father, but doesn't want to raise children that aren't biologically his, he's either a narcissist

I see a lot of posts that go like this: Dear FDS, [Ten paragraphs of justification about how great a man is] There is just one problem [insert heinous, deal breaker issue]. What do I do? I have been guilty of this for many years myself. The way we tell our stories reflects our self worth and our

The other night my husband put on a random movie on Netflix. (Side note, my husband is all the scrote LVM, but thats another post). The movie had Angelina Jolie and I watched a most of it and he watched till the end. The movie is called Wanted. While watching I noticed some things here and there.

A gold digger ain't a problem for the men who can afford her rates A slut ain't a problem for the men she gives up 😺 for And a misandrist ain't a problem for the men with the necessary rizz-level for charming their way into her pants regardless. Which is why any man who complains about "man h

Because selfish is what they call a woman who doesn't put others first in her own life, and a Gold digger when she doesn't settle for 50/50 manlets. As Barbie in the Scrooch retelling said, " In a Selfish world, only the selfish ones survive. " And the selfless ones will always hold onto the shor

I've recently been noticing that many men seem to like being low value, like they see no point in changing for the better. I recently told a male "friend" that he would attract more women and have a better dating life overall if he stopped following thirst traps on social media and quit porn but h

Sometimes when a woman on the internet shares her experience with DV, there will often be a bunch of incels in the comments gleefully assuring her that 'you probably weren't innocent either'. Well if that's true, then the same applies for men who were cheated on by multiple women. From an evolutio

We already know that the logical endpoint of any patriarchal civilization is a surplus male epidemic. And we all know that you can restart society on a desert island with a handful of men and a crap ton of women but not the other way around. Which means the vast majority of men do not deserve to exi

Now that I think of it, the vast majority of men are undateable. I don't even need to go out on a date with these men to know that they are undateable necause they have so many red flags. The worst thing is a lot of LVM will hide their LV traits so you can't immediately tell that they are LV. This

There's nothing a man can do to kill my lady boner for him faster than wear a "trans rights" shirts or bleat that "trans women are women" Best case scenario, he's a fundamentally self serving individual with no regard for the concept of integrity whatsoever. Worst case scenario, he's either a por

I was recently hanging out with my friend after a long time and she was trying to create drama, out of nothing, I was busy doing my work and till then she was taking pictures, since i was busy and couldn’t take some clicks, i proceeded to take em afterwards, now she hits me with a comment “ do you t

DON'T EVER FORGET THIS. This is the reason why we have The Female Dating Strategy. Not a wishlist, a dream or an aspiration. A STRATEGY. Even the most timid, meek and feminine men are strategic, they just won't admit it or don't know how to verbalise it. It's so ingrained in them. Stay sharp, stay

So I met this guy who is well put together who has a couple friends who are woman. Maybe it’s my insecurities but every time I’ve had a man who’s a friend he has tried to make a move on me if I’m single, hence why I don’t have any male friends anymore. He told one of the reasons he left his ex was

I'm so serious. My mom doesn't sleep with my dad (he sleeps in his office usually) so it's never really been something I ever considered until I learned it's a "normal" thing apparently. And why would any woman? Every time you drift off to sleep with a man next to you, you're risking the possibility

Ladies I need some advice. I’ve been in a recruitment process with a major company since July (7 interviews). On Sept 10 I had my final round with senior directors. Before that, HR asked me to complete an Excel with my compensation 10 days ago and later requested clarifications, which felt like a

So a while back I got some acute lung problems and had to book a pulmonologist quickly. It ended up being a male doctor, and this whole situation it just proves to me males are massively stunted at expressing care and emotions PROPERLY, since they sure express those damn emotions all the time despit