Is there a link for the handbook? I've searched the website but can't seem to find it. I remember viewing it on Reddit back in the day. Thanks!

Edit: men aren't allowed to cry Typo lol In what world are women rewarded for crying? I've been doing some thinking on my childhood and I realize as an adult I actually struggle to cry because I've been shamed for being too emotional and sensitive growing up. A lot of these complaints and ster

In my teens I fell down the red pill rabbit hole. All the anti-female reddit pages, and BEFORE that, it was menarebetterthanwomen.com and porn. I also had a misogynistic upbringing, and a misogynistic stepfather, who, at best, had a paternal sort of sexism. I do my best to look for truths abou

I am 24, I have autism and a neurological condition, I had posted about an older guy from a mental health forum. I was active there a lot, this dude kept messaging me and replying to all my posts. He asked me to hang out "as friends" in his 2nd message and I had ignored it. He also belittled me and

It's that time again. How are you going with your progress towards your goals? Did you set some at the start of the year? Are you working towards goals that are much longer range since before the start of the year? How about shorter term goals? Do you need to review your goals? Are you regularly c

Noun. Plural. Definition: Men who value going 50/50 in romantic relationships out of stinginess. As in, a cafe breve that's made up of half-and-half creamer. Avoid at all costs in the early stages of dating! If he wants to show he's a good provider, he won't be pinching pennies and he'll understa

You better settle for 50/50 because you’ll die alone with cats. You better learn how to cook and clean for your man or someone else will. Dont disturb him playing video games because that is just as important as paying the bills. It doesn’t matter if he got you pregnant you carried and pushed that b

I took a 1 year long 1-1 mentorship from J and she helped me a lot. This was 2021-2022. Then In end of 2022, I ended up finding a great job, which happened to be the same industry my mentor was in. Anyways there were some times when J would say “you should help me when you learn some stuff from K”

I've heard that it's ideal for your SO to love you slightly more than you love him. What does it mean? I've never been in this situation. Back when I was unwoke, I had intense crushes on men. Either that or I was not interested in the men who were interested in me. I had never experienced liking a m

I own over 30 pair of shoes. I'm self-conscious that I might own way too many.

I just can’t help but laugh at how pathetic someone must be to go to these lengths. These men claim to be the ‘prize,’ yet they go as far as creating and buying women-looking robots. This is how much men need women, to the point where they’ll opt for the fake version just to feel the touch of a w

And watch out, I had to decline a second date with one of these types. They'll come across as VERY caring and fatherly, but it's only because the dogs they have who they care for are expected to obey commands. And yes, this bleeds into their relationships with women. This is especially true of

Without going into explicit detail on the situation, I recently came to decision to initiate a civil lawsuit against an abuser. I generally feel that it's a good idea-- I'm not interested in monetary compensation, but the benefit to me is having room to fully describe the abuse to the abuser's fac

I made the mistake of going out with someone from work and I don't think I've ever regretted anything so much, I hate having to go with tunnel vision to avoid stares and be careful where I go so I don't put up with nonsense like these: - When we went out I had told him that I hated another person f

I see a lot of posts that go like this: Dear FDS, [Ten paragraphs of justification about how great a man is] There is just one problem [insert heinous, deal breaker issue]. What do I do? I have been guilty of this for many years myself. The way we tell our stories reflects our self worth and our

My friend isn’t on FDS yet and may not join at this point, but has the view points we all have about men - i.e. men don’t behave properly and mistreat women the majority of the time. She has her own TikTok profile and makes videos discussing her views on men. She’s currently living at home and is f

whenever I see a highly attractive women on my feed their will always be a disgsuting goblin looking male commenting "mid" l've seen males call Candice Swanepol, Margot Robbie, Zendaya, Madison Beer, literal Victoria secret models "mid" - some of the most beautiful woman in the world mid. Why do the

I was dating this scrote for 2 months and we ended up breaking up because the mask has fallen . I ended things because he said he wasn’t sure about the relationship and I ended up things immediately. Anyways I forgot a pair of earrings at his house and I had asked him to bring them in our other date

And i don't think this is most women. It's the type of women who have cheated on their boyfriend/husband before, or who attack a woman who the boyfriend lies to. For example, if a guy says he's single and sleeps with someone, but was lying and has a girlfriend, that's not the girls fault unless

I had to think about this one, but once I did, it made sense. I have a little bit out outside pressure to try to settle down, and that's from sources I've already deemed to be not in my best interest. (Ex family, religious friends). But there's still this huge internal push telling me to be wort

Nothing has ever exhausted me more than men have. I know manipulative and abusive men I've dated were especially tiring, but I feel like all men are so chaotic and tiring... I only recently learned that women need more sleep than men.... I am 39!!! Even my best boyfriends insisted on holidays wher

So like, there's the whole cat lady trope, but like, those women arent BOTHERING anyone. The absolute most INSANE, angry, unhappy men ive EVER met were over 35 and single. The more chronically single they are, the more insane they actually go, because they're parasites by nature who are worried

I had two kids, and both times, the pain was unbearable but also, the feeling was overwhelming. I've had an abcesss teeth before but those were slightly less painful despite being downright awful. I have one ex-friend (our politics don't line up) who says she can just sneeze, and her babies came

https://www.nubologists.com/post/skull-theory I was raised "red pill" by a male supremacist who gaslit me a lot. I fell into male supremacy culture in my early teens to the point of being suicidal. The things I read online about men having objectively better brains were lies. Red pill is suppos

Hi, I don't know how this post will be received. I'm going through a very difficult dichotomy IMHO. I am not sure I want a man, let alone marriage. I know what it's like to take care of a father who needs me 24/7 and the clinginess, bitchiness, and unpredictable mood swings are going to kill me, and

We met, exclusive, a couple 3 months in, he moved. He does have crazy work schedules. But still makes time to call every day. My problem however isn't that, or that hes manipulative etc. Hes not a bad guy per se. But I dont feel like he really cares that much, that we cant see eachother often. In th

My aunt found them in his porn stash when she was cleaning his room. Like, my fucking face covered in old man jizz. I feel like I need to be on suicide watch. I kept asking why he was being cut off by my family, and my aunt was the only one who could break it to me. I feel fucking sick. This is

Sorry, this is gross but it's the truth, scrotes will jack off to women online. There's this trend among sellers where they do live shows - to sell whatever goods, trinkets, clothes, etc they have for sale. Think of whatnot ans poshmark shows, for example. I used to be friends with guys in high